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We Broke Up Over Funyuns
Last night he came over, he wanted to go straight out for dinner. We hadn’t seen each other in days, and the last time we saw each other...
Single in Oakland
Jan 12, 20163 min read
When it Doesn't Feel Right
The truth finally came out, through texts, yesterday, that he'd left his job and had basically been lying to me for at least 6 weeks...
Single in Oakland
Jan 3, 20163 min read
What I Really Want
We got in a massive fight two days ago. We were cuddling in bed, and he does the usual launching of questions at me like a kid. The Why,...
Single in Oakland
Dec 29, 20154 min read
Too Familiar
We’ve made up, but by the time I heard from him the next day I was fuming. Like, so much for hiding the crazy, nuts. He doesn’t really...
Single in Oakland
Dec 14, 20152 min read
Shit Gets Complicated
Finance picked us up from the airport and then never really left my home for the next eight days. We were back on a Monday and he spent...
Single in Oakland
Dec 11, 20153 min read
He's Dead to Me
I’m still in Mexico, and I haven’t heard from him all day. One nonchalant response to a text from him asking if he was still alive...
Single in Oakland
Nov 27, 20151 min read
Thankful and Hopeful on Thanksgiving
24 Days later I’m in Mexico with my best friend and Finance texts me that he misses me while he's at dinner with his parents for...
Single in Oakland
Nov 26, 20152 min read
The Lady Doctor at Pause Wine Bar
Finance has been here for three days. It’s like playing house, but with not enough sex. About twice a day is all that he can muster and...
Single in Oakland
Nov 19, 20152 min read
Let's Get it On
The first time Finance comes over, (a big step for me after kicking out the Tunisian) I’m actually not sure if we’re going to sleep...
Single in Oakland
Nov 16, 20151 min read
Day on the coast with Finance, and without his wallet.
Our next date is a day planned on the coast. He’s somehow lost his wallet in his son’s backpack, but we’re not canceling the date. I even...
Single in Oakland
Nov 10, 20152 min read
Finance at Forge
We meet at Forge, the plan is to watch the Warriors game and grab dinner. Finance is attractive, and incredibly tall. By his features I...
Single in Oakland
Nov 4, 20152 min read
Derailed but on the Mend
The cast comes off tomorrow. Typing with one hand has seriously derailed my blogging, much less my job requirements. The biggest thing...
Single in Oakland
Nov 2, 20152 min read
FWB 16 Years Later
I meet up with my friends in the Valley, and I end up deciding to revisit a FWB from 16 years ago. It’s going to be worth it. I slept...
Single in Oakland
Oct 16, 20153 min read
Compartmentalizing Men
I’ve been super sick, and had a series of unfortunate events happen since breaking my hand, including popping my front tire. I’ve been...
Single in Oakland
Oct 9, 20151 min read
I break my hand, exFriend Zone breaks my heart.
At this point I tell The Kid about everything, and ask him if I should call exFriend Zone out. Before I hear back exFriend Zone texts me...
Single in Oakland
Oct 5, 20152 min read
Isn't it Ironic?
I set up a cool brunch date with this dude last week and then the next morning he texts me at 630 in the morning bragging about...
Single in Oakland
Oct 4, 20153 min read
Friend Zone Needs a New Name
I picked up Friend Zone from the BART station before 5, we headed into the city without problems, got there early enough to have a few...
Single in Oakland
Oct 3, 20156 min read
Tinderella is back!
I tried to take the week off of dating, only had one overnight with Will Gardner, that was hilarious. It included him dropping a stack of...
Single in Oakland
Oct 1, 20152 min read
Swiping Right
I sent Buena Vista one more text, something generic wondering if he’d heard of a specific bar. The response was blase so I stopped. Part...
Single in Oakland
Sep 29, 20151 min read
The Blood Moon
This weekend concluded an 11 year chapter in my life. This last year has been one of the most trying I hope to ever experience. Extreme...
Single in Oakland
Sep 27, 20153 min read
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