Swiping Right

I sent Buena Vista one more text, something generic wondering if he’d heard of a specific bar. The response was blase so I stopped. Part of me really wants to know what happened, most of me is just grateful it did, and I'm looking to get past it. Everytime I see a hairy male model I think of him, and his horribly generic/historic name that I see all around Oakland isn’t helping the matter.

So, back on Hinge and Tinder. Working out my Tinder elbow, apparently swipping for hours on end can lead to a very specific pain in your arm, and trying to figure out what I want to try next. There are a lot of open marriages, couples looking to add a third...am I even ballsy enough to try that? I’m swiping right so part of me must be. I need a guy that doesn’t want to just drink and eat everytime we hang out though. Golfing, hiking, biking, something on the water...just hanging out shoving our faces full of food and drink until we’re buzzed enough to move it to the bedroom isn’t ideal for me.

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