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Thankful and Hopeful on Thanksgiving
24 Days later I’m in Mexico with my best friend and Finance texts me that he misses me while he's at dinner with his parents for...
Single in Oakland
Nov 26, 20152 min read
The Lady Doctor at Pause Wine Bar
Finance has been here for three days. It’s like playing house, but with not enough sex. About twice a day is all that he can muster and...
Single in Oakland
Nov 19, 20152 min read
Let's Get it On
The first time Finance comes over, (a big step for me after kicking out the Tunisian) I’m actually not sure if we’re going to sleep...
Single in Oakland
Nov 16, 20151 min read
Day on the coast with Finance, and without his wallet.
Our next date is a day planned on the coast. He’s somehow lost his wallet in his son’s backpack, but we’re not canceling the date. I even...
Single in Oakland
Nov 10, 20152 min read
Finance at Forge
We meet at Forge, the plan is to watch the Warriors game and grab dinner. Finance is attractive, and incredibly tall. By his features I...
Single in Oakland
Nov 4, 20152 min read
Derailed but on the Mend
The cast comes off tomorrow. Typing with one hand has seriously derailed my blogging, much less my job requirements. The biggest thing...
Single in Oakland
Nov 2, 20152 min read
FWB 16 Years Later
I meet up with my friends in the Valley, and I end up deciding to revisit a FWB from 16 years ago. It’s going to be worth it. I slept...
Single in Oakland
Oct 16, 20153 min read
Compartmentalizing Men
I’ve been super sick, and had a series of unfortunate events happen since breaking my hand, including popping my front tire. I’ve been...
Single in Oakland
Oct 9, 20151 min read
I break my hand, exFriend Zone breaks my heart.
At this point I tell The Kid about everything, and ask him if I should call exFriend Zone out. Before I hear back exFriend Zone texts me...
Single in Oakland
Oct 5, 20152 min read
Isn't it Ironic?
I set up a cool brunch date with this dude last week and then the next morning he texts me at 630 in the morning bragging about...
Single in Oakland
Oct 4, 20153 min read
Friend Zone Needs a New Name
I picked up Friend Zone from the BART station before 5, we headed into the city without problems, got there early enough to have a few...
Single in Oakland
Oct 3, 20156 min read
Tinderella is back!
I tried to take the week off of dating, only had one overnight with Will Gardner, that was hilarious. It included him dropping a stack of...
Single in Oakland
Oct 1, 20152 min read
Swiping Right
I sent Buena Vista one more text, something generic wondering if he’d heard of a specific bar. The response was blase so I stopped. Part...
Single in Oakland
Sep 29, 20151 min read
The Blood Moon
This weekend concluded an 11 year chapter in my life. This last year has been one of the most trying I hope to ever experience. Extreme...
Single in Oakland
Sep 27, 20153 min read
So what now?
Yup, I’m back, and I haven’t heard from him. I resolved to not text him again (which I fight every hour of every day). He knew when I was...
Single in Oakland
Sep 25, 20153 min read
Are we or aren't we?
I'm stressed and a bit sad. I've got no reason to expect that Buena Vista and I are a couple, but at the same time, we've had deep...
Single in Oakland
Sep 19, 20151 min read
When you like him too much...
I like this guy too much to just continue sleeping with him, but at the same time it would be insane not to. But to be honest, as hot as...
Single in Oakland
Sep 18, 20151 min read
He's Back!
Buena Vista is back! And we've got exactly three days to hang out before I fly out to New York. He's achingly attractive. Like, I'll...
Single in Oakland
Sep 16, 20151 min read
Sidenote: #whatgirlsthink
I’ve determined that my least favorite part about Tinder is seeing the last time that the person you’re chatting with and into, was on...
Single in Oakland
Sep 14, 20151 min read
Randos
Stanford has continued to text me. He's traveling for the next several months, so I'm not exactly sure why after that rediculous waste of...
Single in Oakland
Sep 11, 20151 min read
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